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Thoughts from the airport

KLIA Kuala Lumpur International Airport Malaysia

I’m now in Singapore, spending some quality time with my nieces. Big Bro went Germany last Saturday and Taiso to Hong Kong yesterday. So, only me, Nee, Ling and the maid at home. Taking care of children is not an easy job. It requires a lot of patience and responsibilities.

Last Friday, i took an early flight (jetstar) to Singapore but flight delayed for a couple of 2 hours. I spent nearly two hours sitting at an airport gate and it has been a long time since the last time i travel by air. I used to travel a lot when i was with the national team and being in the KLIA airport kind of reminded me of the good old days. I’m traveling alone this time around and a lots of thing going through my mind when i was sitting on a bench inside the waiting area at the gate. There are few planes landed safely and park its way to their slots. Others were taking off for another journey carrying passengers to their destination.

From the frontview of my sitting, i observed how the workers busy attending to the landed planes under the hot sun. Some running from one plane to other to check on the plane while others are moving the baggage, giving signals for taking off and landing.

My eldest brother used to be one of them, working under SIA as air aircraft engineer. I never knew how hard he works and the amount of pressure, responsibilities that he shouldered but in that instant, i knew. He used to work overtime 7 days a week when he was with MAS. Then, he joined SIA. What does an aircraft engineer do? He make sure the plane is safe to fly and the safety of all the passengers is actually of his hands.

My big bro, when he was young, he likes plane. Mama bought him a toy plane and he loves to watch drama series like Airwolf which i thought boring. He also likes to watch Mc Gyver and i wondered if his passion for repairing things was inspired by the series. Unfortunately, he couldn’t fulfill his ambition as a pilot because he has long-sightedness, or astigmatism but he end up being an aircraft engineer instead. He got a scholarship from MAS and futher his studies in Scotland. He is the role model for us and we look up to him for being a successful person despite our not-so-well-to-do family background. Though, i might suffered a low self-esteem since i was young, being ridiculed and laughed at but i told myself i’m going to be successful one day. I’m quiet strong willed and I felt proud of our family members for being successful despite of the difficult childhood we faced.

My siblings and I used to envy those kids with a perfect family – rich. They can have the best in the world but i also realized that those kids have their own unhappiness. Their parents are so busy with their work and never bother to spend time with them but expensive gifts. They have full loads of expectation to fulfill because they comes from the upper class background. This made me wondered if being in materialistic well-to-do family is that great at all. Those kids, i thought to myself - if being put in my shoes, i wondered if they could survive  at alland achieve what me and my siblings had achieved. We can never choose our parents but we are thankful for the life that had been given to us. Grass is always greener on the other side of the field!

I never wish for anything but a life full of happiness for my family members. It was a touching moment when i saw my sister in law bidding farewell to my brother. It was then, i realized my brother had found his happiness in life. I rarely see such a scene cause my bro is kinda cool guy and rarely show his affection in front of us, being a big Koko maybe he is shy la.

There will be changes in life and i believe if there is strong family support, one can overcome any obstacles in life. Because you know that no matter what – rich or poor, sick and healthy – for the family, you will still be the same you. I’m not sure if my brother will ever read this blog – but i think all of us here are proud of him.

So, you think you can coach?

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Hola! I’m back blogging.

Heyha-s! I’ve been missing in action for some time. I’ve been enjoying my holiday while doing some part time badminton coaching.

Everything is on the right track and so my next thought began- What am i going to do next? I’m still interested in the field of psychology; particularly in sports psychology. I’m looking for opportunities but first i have to gain experience as a sports psychologist/mental trainer.

During the first week of my holiday, i attended a coaching course organized by the BAM. I’ve gained some valuable insight that probably changed my coaching principles towards children in the future. Even though i’ve been an ex-national player before, it doesn’t mean i’m competent enough to be a good coach. In fact, i’m humbled by how little i know about being a knowledgeable coach, be it in sports science theoretical knowledge or in practical application and experience as a coach. I believe that there are ex-players like me who thought that we knew everything about the game but yet we know nothing but the pride had left us missed the opportunity to learn to growth as an individual and a better coach. Being a player, they just have to follow the coach’s instructions to train but as a coach there are unlimited responsibilities that one have to shoulder especially in coaching young talented kids. Perhaps one of the most important thing that i realize and was able relate to myself in the past as well as the young players today is the whole unsystematic/unethical training of young talented players today are being push too early and too hard. Why? Pressure, competitiveness and coaches just want results without having second thoughts on the possibilities of injury and growing mechanism disruption of these players. Hence, many are unable to go far when they reached 17 and 18 years old. This, not to mention the psychological well being of adolescent players who experience all kinds of distractions, curiousity, emotional being, adaptability with their surrounding. Sometimes coaches just don’t care about the psychological being of these young players and label them with various negative comments that probably leave a lifetime scarring in their life.

Recently, BAM hired Hendrawan to revive the back up players that seems to be so far away from Chong Wei. Few years back, Li Mao requested few players from Rashid’s 2010 squad to be train under him but was being rejected – (it’s all about credit, for selfish reasons if Li Mao is able to bring any of the youngster up, Rashid will lose the credits for training them in 2010 squad). So, he manage to keep all the players to himself and Li Mao was unhappy with the politics, selfish environment and uncooperative nature among the coaches that drive him to return to Korean team. At least he is well respected in Korea and they treat him well unlike in Malaysia. Now, after a couple of years, there is no players from Rashid’s 2010 squad that can narrow their gap with Chong Wei and they start to panic. Thus, the hiring of Hendrawan to revive the back-up players.

I commented this on a badminton forum.

“A pleasant surprise to hear that Hendrawan is being hired by BAM to revive the back-up squad after the overrated coaches fail to do wonders to them but still selfishly keep the players to themselves. What’s the difference now in hiring Hendrawan when Li Mao requested to coach 1/2 of the potential youngsters? Luckily Hendrawan has a good friend here to guide him through the politic 101 in BAM. Hiring the best coaches in the world is not going to solve the problem in the long term. They should examine the whole badminton development in the grass root level and also internally/external factors in the state associations & BAM. “

Implementing coaching license in badminton and focusing on sport science is a sound plan but what is the use for educating the coaches in sport science for school, private and state level but not the national level? Isn’t it contradicting with their purpose and intention when they hire a foreign coaches without the sports science knowledge? This is how the Malaysian brain works.

Having said that, I believe Hendrawan will make a difference to the men’s team. According to NST, Hendrawan is the last resort -

“Hendrawan is known as an excellent worker, especially with lesser gifted players and he himself is an example of how well a player with a small physique can be so successful on the international stage.

“Hendrawan will definitely offer something new for the players. The majority of the our back-up players don’t have the advantage of size so we hope that he (Hendrawan) will be able to relate his experience and pass on his effective training methods.

Personally, i think the comment is stupid. What’s more, there are rumours saying Hafiz and Kuan Beng Hong will be place under Hendrawan. Just admit that you are not good enough for the job and don’t blame it on LESS GIFTED players and save yourself some face when BAM already doubting your ability. This makes me wonder what’s so great about a coach who can only produce Lee Chong Wei who is more talented from the rest of the players in the country? If the coach is so great, he should have produce 10 Lee Chong Weis…. having said that, i agree that talent is important in grooming world class players.

How long does it take BAM to realize that they lack talent management and what is the use of implementing coaching licenses for the grass root level and louding the importance of sports science but yet they do the opposite by hiring foreign coaches without the knowledge of sports science at all? Funny isn’t it how they think. In fact, we are not lack of talents and you will be surprise with the numbers of children & youngsters participating in various tournaments but there is no systematic development program. The state BAs are all inactive in playing their role and some BAs are even in spotlight for having corruption issues. Where the money goes?

With all the uncertainties, no wonder parents today are not encouraging their children to be professional badminton players. What is their future if they sacrifice their time, education, money and effort but end up going no where. Afterall, there is only one Lee Chong Wei.

My advise – not worth it unless your child is very very very talented. Good Luck to Hendrawan! Expect to handle some lesser talented players and do a miracle.

Please Help Little Irshad!

My heart wretched when i saw this picture…. Irshad’s mom, Salmiah is appealing to any skin specialist to come forward to help his son to treat his rare skin disease. The skin condition worsen when Irshad was 6 months old he was having difficulty to sleep at night. The condition of the skin will get worst during the hot weather as the skin will became dry, itchy and start to peel off. If you wish to help, Irshad’s father Azizan can be reach at this number 013-5049190.

SALMIAH ABD RAHMAN
ABJECT MISERY: In Kapung Siput, in Baling, Kedah, 22-month old Irshad Azizan stays home in pain and misery, all because of a rare skin disease he suffered since he was six-months old. His mother Salmiah Abd Rahman, 40, has appealed for skin specialists to help her youngest child. Irshad is especially vulnerable to hot weather, compelling him to cry incessantly in pain. – Pix by Bernama

12 days Instant marriage for Roslin Hashim

Bold statement from Roslin -  ” I never had sex with wife, claims Roslin” - Thestar Online. Roslin Hashim was my senior batch in the national badminton team. In fact, I was in the same batch with Hafiz. I’ve not heard about him for quiet sometime. I only heard of his dispute with BAM and he moved on to play in some clubs base in Europe. I don’t want to be KAY PO CHI…. but when i came across some news involved people i know, naturally, my kayponess increased cause it piqued my interest. Well, i don’t know what happen in between but just wish him luck la. Both siblings – Roslin & Hafiz are not sailing smoothly this year.

Roslin dan Faizah

Roslin and Faizah

NATIONAL badminton player Muhammad Roslin Hashim, who is embroiled in a bitter divorce case, admitted that he never had sex with his wife Faizah Mohammad during their 12-day marriage.

Harian Metro! reported that Muhammad Roslin was willing to swear on his admission that he had never touched Faizah when challenged by her lawyer Musa Awang at the Syariah Court in Petaling Jaya.

Reporters were then asked to leave the courtroom after Muhammad Roslin willingly agreed to swear.

Answering Musa’s questions, Muhammad Roslin said he was sane and aware when he pronounced talak (intention to divorce).

When asked about the reason to divorce, he replied: “Not compatible.”

Faizah previously testified in court that she and Muhammad Roslin had consummated their marriage before he pronounced talak.

On Tuesday, the Kuala Lumpur Syariah High Court rejected Muhammad Roslin’s application for an injunction to stop Faizah and her brother Zulkifli Mohammad from giving statements to the press regarding the divorce.

Syariah judge Jamil Ahmad set May 12 to decide on the case.

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Worldwish – Gives hope to children with life-threatening medical conditions

When there is hope, life become meaningful….

A dream is a wish your heart makes…

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I came across this interesting international organization called “WORLDWISH” which touched my heart and inspire me to work on this meaningful cause in the future. I was offered a free complimentary FORTUNE magazine and thats how i found out about Worldwish. Most of us heard about WorldVision before and it’s well known event of 30 hour famine. WorldWish is totally different approach in reaching out and offering hope to children worldwide. The foundation grant the wishes of children with life-threatening medical conditions to enrich the human
experience with hope, strength and joy.

The First Wish
The creation of the Make-A-Wish Foundation was inspired in the U.S. in 1980 by the fulfillment of a wish of a 7-year-old boy with leukemia named Chris Greicius, who wished to be a policeman. His mother, several friends and a group of police officers, with the cooperation of the Arizona Department of Public Safety, granted his wish with a custom-made uniform, helmet, badge, and helicopter ride!

Chris

The First “Make-A-Wish” Child

The magical relationship the Make-A-Wish Foundation has formed with Disney on a global scale began with Frank “Bopsy” Salazar, the first official wish child. Like Chris, he was a 7-year-old boy in the U.S. who was diagnosed with leukemia and revered people in uniform. The Foundation set out to grant his wish to be a firefighter, and thanks to wonderful support from our Disney friends, more fun was in store for his magical wish!

First "Make-A-Wish" Child

Recent Wish Stories



Affiliates of Worldwish / Make-A-Wish Foundation International can now be found in 31 countries around the world (excluding the United States). Surprisingly, there is no Worldwish in Malaysia. I’m disappointed. Hope Worldwish will come to Malaysia real soon. Meanwhile, more information can be obtain via http://worldwish.org

» Argentina » Italy
» Australia » Japan
» Austria » Korea
» Belgium South » Mexico
» Belgium Vlaanderen » Netherlands
» Brazil » New Zealand
» Canada » Panama
» Chile » Peru
» Denmark » Philippines
» France » Portugal
» Germany » Singapore
» Greece » Switzerland
» Hong Kong » Taiwan
» India » United Arab Emirates
» Ireland » United Kingdom
» Israel

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PM Najib and “His” 1Malaysia

Dato' Sri Najib Tun Razak

Finally, after much drama, DS Najib swore in as the 6th PM of Malaysia. He introduced  one Malaysia concept as his vision for his leadership.

‘1Malaysia is intended to provide a free and open forum to discuss the things that matter deeply to us as a nation. It provides a chance to express and explore the many perspectives of our fellow citizens. What makes Malaysia unique is the diversity of our peoples.

‘1Malaysia’s goal is to preserve and enhance this unity in diversity which has always been our strength and remains our best hope for the future. I hope this website will initiate an open and vital dialogue exploring our Malaysian identity, purpose, and direction.

‘I encourage each of you to join me in defining our Malaysia and the role we must play in its future. Each of us – despite our differences – shares a desire for a better tomorrow. Each of us want opportunity, respect, friendship, and understanding.’

Read here -“One Malaysia” — what it means…..

One Malaysia? How?

1) Abolish NEP “ketuanan melayu” – The barrier of all races in Malaysia

2) Abolish ISA – Why release 13 detainees only? Release all and abolish ISA!

3) Fight corruption

Let’s give him a fair chance but can he walk the talk of the mission impossible above? Or there is another meaning of 1 Malaysia? Sloone’s interpretation – One word, one thought, one action. No disagreement. No criticism.

Btw, the new PM is already joining the bloggersphere… 1 Malaysia already go online …. believe it! Check it out http://www.1malaysia.com.my

Wow… the website is like his personal blog, better than Tun AAB warkahuntukpm.com.my (suppose to be shut down already). So, what exactly is 1 Malaysia ?

As for MCA tells Najib to create a 2nd DPM post reported in Malaysiakini, keep on dreaming ya… if there is 2nd DPM post for chinese, then MIC also request DPM no 3…  should we have 3 PM also?

Please help a ghost to seek his wife and son

Five men seeking a ghost’s wife and son

By RACHEL LAU

KUALA LUMPUR: Five men have taken out advertisements in three Chinese dailies seeking a dead man’s wife and son. They claim the ghost of the dead man wanted the wife and son found. In their quest, the five also turned to Datuk Michael Chong, often called on to help in cases involving violent Ah Longs, missing spouses, Internet scams and vengeful partners, to help them with their supernatural problem.

At a press conference called by the MCA Public Services and Complaints Department head, the five men said their problems began when they visited Cambodia earlier this month where the “haunting” started.

They had checked into a hotel room on a floor that a masseuse had warned them was “dirty.” Teow Hsium Choon, 36, a factory worker, said two of the five then made crass jokes about ghosts in their hotel room. “I felt a great sense of unease almost immediately, as though there were many angry spirits surrounding me,” Teow claimed, adding that he was possessed twice within four hours. His friend Ding Hon Sai, 38, said he panicked when he saw Teow going into a seizure the same night, when they were in a pub. “When he gained consciousness, he spoke in a woman’s voice and started to sob loudly,” said Ding, adding that the “ghost” was begging for forgiveness in Hokkien.

The second time Teow was possessed, a male spirit said it would stop disturbing them only if they located its son, one Chew Kon Lai, 38, and wife Chong Sim Choon. Michael Chong said that before the five came to him, he had received an anonymous call asking him to help five men from Alor Setar who would seek his help.

“This is an extremely unusual case. I hope we can help the men locate these two people as soon as possible,” he said. The five have already published notices seeking the wife and son in three local Chinese dailies, but there has been no response. Those who have information about Chew or Sim Choon’s location can contact Teow at 019-575 8288, Ding at 012-482 9855 or MCA secretary Tay Joann at 03-2161 5678

Please help the 2 poor guy if you happen to know  Chew Kon Lai, 38,  Chong Sim Choon. Eerie isn’t it especially during the Ching ming period. Moral of the story – Don’t simply talk something that would offend the spirit from the underworld; you will regret it.

Amazing Earth Hour 2009

The World Switch Off Its Light For Earth Hour 2009

KUALA LUMPUR, MALAYSIA

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CAIRO

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LONDON

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ROME

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JAKARTA

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HONG KONG

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ATHENS

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NEW YORK CITY

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DUBAI

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EIFFEL TOWEL

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SHANGHAI

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MEXICO CITY

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ROYAL PALACE OF OSLO

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Source: Reuter & AP Associate Press

Please turn off the light tonight at 8.30pm!… It’s Earth Hour!

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Earth Hour 2009

What is it all about? It’s a simple flick of a switch, to make a difference.

It all began with Earth Hour 2007. In Sydney Australia, on the last Saturday in March 2007 2.2 million people turned off their lights. Why? To show their support for a global mandate for action on Climate Change. Only a year later in 2008 and this event had become a global sustainability movement with up to 50 million.

Earth Hour, as you all know, was a worldwide initiative that occurred last Saturday in order to reinforce the idea of climate change being a major threat to our planet. Everyone was encouraged to turn off all of their lights for a whole hour, whether at home or at the office. In terms of global warming and climate change being an immediate threat, I must say that I stand on the side of the many climatologists and meteorologists who believe that such a drastic shift will not occur in the next hundred years. Nonetheless, I still think Earth Hour was a great idea.

Naturally, there were plenty of things to be said about Earth Hour, from both the positive and the negative sides. A lot of the negative criticism spoke of how it was a “gimmick” and that it really did not promote any positive results. No matter what, conserving electricity is isn’t a bad thing and I’m happy to be promoting the idea of environmental conservation. However the whole idea and intention of Earth Hour must be clear. Some people join the cause because they want to feel good about themselves by showing the world they’ve done their part in saving the mother earth. Others join simply because majority people are joining. Knowing the pros and cons of this event will make us wiser in our judgment that we are not supporting the cause without thinking the impact, the issues and the ideas of the event. One must be intellectually support their own perspective on the idea of Earth Hour that has been dubbed as a publicity stunt.

I support the cause because of 2 reasons although i doubt it will make any difference tomorrow. For one, i know the mass media and publicity towards this event will raise awareness to more people worldwide about global warming and secondly, it’s great opportunity to unite people all over the world with the spirit to make a difference for this cause. To be honest, I just find it comical that so much criticism was displayed publicly in reference to this event. No, Earth Hour might not really accomplish a whole lot. However, I am not going to stand in the way of an idea that apparently has nothing but good intentions.

Below are some who against Earth Hour who believe Earth Hour is just a waste of time and will be gone in 60 minutes .

Karsten- I think Earth Hour is a colossal waste of time and results in way too many people feeling good about themselves and their “actions”, while nothing really changes.

First of all, 1 hour per year equals 0.07% of the year. Doing something for one hour and feeling good about it is pathetic considering that we may have to reduce our consumption levels by 50-80% forever if what we have shall be shared fairly among 6.5 billion humans.

Secondly, turning lights off does very little. If you want to do something, you should begin with something big. More than just a symbolic action. I calculated last year that my family alone reduced our electricity consumption by a larger amount than the whole town of 2500 people had they participated in Earth Hour (which they did not) just by not using the electric clothes drier all year. No, this could not be seen from space.

Thirdly, while electricity consumption may go down, it is debatable though if electricity production goes down as well. Power plants may not respond to an hour-long dip in the consumption. I posted a question in regard to this a few weeks ago. It seems electricity either gets dumped, transferred somewhere else, or possibly stored. It probably depends on the power plant. I cannot imagine that much happens when people use less electricity only for one hour. The way I understand it, the same amount of electricity is produced, the same amount of green-house gases are emitted, the same pollution occurs.

We need more than popular statements and easy actions. They result, in my opinion, in complacency and unjustified patting oneself on the shoulder. Earth Hour may be a start for some, but it is not a good start for anyone. Should we really support actions that result in people doing very little for one meager hour, who go back to what they did before after that hour, and feel good about themselves for a much longer time? If people are willing to only go as far as Earth Hour asks you to go, we are screwed.

Earth Hour is a mere publicity stunt

I READ with amazement and irony the efforts of WWF Malaysia to latch on to the Earth Hour event and all the celebrities, media and corporations that have come up in support.

It is amazing that people are so easily taken in by a mere publicity stunt that fails at the very essence. Turning off our lights for one hour on one designated day of the year to save our planet surely is a PR event at best.

It shames the thousands of devoted people, government bodies, scientists and environmentalists that have for years been working on finding real solutions to address this global concern. Malaysians should see past this gimmick by international NGOs and start changing their lifestyles. Surely we can be more proactive and not be fed by an agenda of international bodies.

Why don’t we implement power conservation programmes, ride public transport on certain days in a month, car pool, etc?

It is also ironic that the organiser, WWF Malaysia, up until very recently, did not even have a climate change programme to begin with when all others (even local groups and individuals) have been persistent in their pleas for Malaysians to take action.

Remember, our leaders signed the Kyoto Protocol and there has been concerted movement towards reaching solutions. Please let us all be enlightened and move away from celebrations and gimmicks.

MARCUS,
Petaling Jaya.

Earth Hour ‘08: Did It Matter?

Carter Roberts, head of the World Wildlife Fund (WWF), which sponsored Earth Hour, said the global event was designed to “make a statement about our commitment to solve the climate change problem and symbolize the commitment that people will make throughout the rest of the year.” (Hear Roberts talk about Earth Hour on this week’s Greencast.)

Watching the lights wink off in major metropolitan areas now doubt looked impressive, but it’s worth asking: What was the point? As Roberts himself noted, the energy saved by turning off the lights for an hour “won’t make an enormous difference.” So, if it won’t cut carbon emissions, why bother then with Earth Hour, or Earth Day or Earth Live, last year’s daylong concert for the environment?

Because climate change is essentially a political problem, and the language of politics is symbolism. Just because an act is symbolic doesn’t mean it empty. The only way to truly reduce greenhouse gas emissions, to take the pressure off global warming, is an international regime that puts a cap and a price on climate pollution. And the only way that will happen is if politicians around the world become convinced that climate change is an issue that matters to people, one that will make them change the way they live, buy — and vote. “Unlike most of the issues that we grapple with, climate change is global,” said Roberts. “The pressure is on us to do the right thing.” If shutting off the lights for an hour on a Saturday night and doing yoga in the dark makes that political support, well, visible, then Earth Hour will have been worth it.

The environmental movement is reaching a delicate moment. We’re well past the point where going green is novel, where just doing your bit to save the Earth deserves endless praise. We’ve become inured to the existence of global warming, to its inconvenient truth, yet we sense that the solutions we’ve been given — change a light bulb, change your life — fall far short of the scale of the problem. We risk green fatigue because, after all, what can we do about it? But this is the moment when we need to keep pushing in every way we can. The technologies that will help us decarbonize energy are developing, but they need a push — and that will only happen if we keep climate change near the top of our political agenda. Earth Hour, Earth Day, Earth Year — we’ll need it all.

google goes dark earth hour

Believe it or not, even google took part in last year’s Earth Hour…